I will blog about the truth.
Truth of what people are really doing in the name of my Beloved Religion of Islam.
To mangle it and destroy the good in it for others.
That makes me as Furious as Hell Fire.
Shame on them. They will be exposed.
Right HERE.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

"He's a Pedophile" Part1

When searching a definition of Pedophile. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), pedophilia is specified as a form of paraphilia in which a person either has acted on intense sexual urges towards children, or experiences recurrent sexual urges towards and fantasies about children that cause distress or interpersonal difficulty.[4] Wiki.

Now when we research the many types of people that do this either through incest or through external means we find patterns of behavior that are repetitive. Many people have depression, stress, anxiety, and have fantasies of children. They are also loners and anti-social. They many times resort to sordid behaviors and immoral conduct to cover their desires.

Once they have a child they bribe it with niceness to make it trust the person. They teach it new ways to be loved, ways that are not good for themselves and the child. They tell the child with promises or threats not to tell anyone. They are furtive and secret and they warn the child to be too. They cause fear and emotional and usually physical harm to the child that will haunt them for the rest of their lives.

Now for non-Muslims who very well know the dangers of Pedophiles the thought of anyone having a good relationship free from sin and filth and harm with a child is unthinkable. Even if that "child" may be a mature adult mentally and physically.
Yet in Islam we have formed different ideas about what is acceptable and what is not with regards to consensual age of sex. We believe a person is physically ready by Allah's Will when they menstruate and have their first ejaculation. Mentally this differs. Some are later than others. Some are earlier than others. Some are ready mentally before they even have physical readiness. Yet the modern world just slaps a one-fits-all age of maturity on everyone. usually unsaid at 16, acknowledged at 18, and fully at 21. Yet time and time again we hear of young women having babies at 10,11, 14 etc... with the fathers also near this age. They are shunned by society. Many times we see older men marrying women 1/4th their age and loving responsibly their wives. As long as the woman is over legal age no one really says too much out loud.

A PEDOPHILE! This makes me F U R I O U S !!!
Because Allah revealed to Prophet Muhammad in a dream the face of Aisha, who he was to marry. He told her parents about the dream. HE DIDN'T HIDE! It wasn't some fantasy! It's wasn't some wicked desire. He didn't dream of illicit relations he dreamed of her face! They came and asked her opinion. It wasn't secret. He wasn't slyly tricking her to marry him. She consented. The greatest proof of all that He is NOT a PEDOPHILE is he waited until she was physically mature to consummate the marriage. Pedophiles on the whole are not attracted to more mature bodies. They like smooth, young, innocent. Pubic hair for them is a turn off. So why would he wait if he was a wicked man as they claim him to be? Why would he marry old, widowed with children women if he so desired young women. He could literally have his pick of any woman in Arabia and who did he choose? The needy.
He was kind and friendly with Aisha. She wasn't afraid or traumatised by him. She became one of the greatest narrators of Hadith. Surely if she had been victimised she would have been telling horrid story after horrid story after the Prophet's death but she didn't she always told what a wonderful man he was.

So again it makes me FURIOUS when people say again and again that Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad is a Pedophile. A man whom Allah created to be the Seal of All Prophets and the greatest Man He created who had the most righteous character.


Melda :o) said...

Ya Allah, it breaks my heart when I read those comments on youtube..when they call our beloved prophet(saw) a pedophile and ridicule him :o(
Jazakallahu khair for this post! :o)

o0UmmHasan0o said...

absolutely priceless!! keep it up

come and choose an award!

Anonymous said...


I spent some time living in Yemen and child brides are a common thing. Often they come from very poor families and the groom, usually much much older, maybe older than the girls parents! He offers money and the family in effect 'sell' their daughter. After a few years and a child or two, many are divorced and returned to their fathers house with extra mouths to feed. It is a sad story. My neighbour in Yemen was 14 with a 2 year old and divorced. ALhamdulillah for her, her family did actually take her back with no shame on them.
I hate when men use the example of Rasulullah marrying Aisha at 9. Firstly Rasulullah is Rasulullah with the strongest Taqwa and manners of anyone, the best of all mankind. The men marrying children are not even dirt under Rasulullah's toenails, because such dirt would be blessed.
There was a very interesting article about the effects of pregnancy on a still growing body, some girls experienced a ruptured uterus and died. SubhanAllah.

BTW: I am not a drama queen. :)

fad-fadat nour said...

What a wonderful post.

I just want to add that Aisha (RA)was actually engaged/promised to another man (who wasn't a Muslim & who didn't proceed with the engagement or cancel it after her Islam).

When the prophet (PBUH)talked with Abu Bakr (RA), Abu Bakr had to go to this man's house & ask if the engagement is still on. His family said we won't have our son marry a Muslim. Only after this the prophet could proceed with the engagement.

The point of this story is that it was acceptable & normal at that time for girls to marry at a young age. & that was the case till very recent age ( all over the world as far as I know).

It is out of sheer ignorance that these poor people attack our prophet.

Anonymous said...

Sister, it seems that you are doing more insult to Muslims than good. As a reader, I had no idea these hypocrisy's went on- what are you achieving or aiming to achieve with this blog? Are we not supposed to be concealing eachother's sins and flaws? By the time I got to your more recent post I was shocked, horrified and disgusted by things I didn't even know existed before I came to this blog.

And sister, why so furious? Is rage not a sin? Judgement upon others? Revealing of faults?

Are you absolutely 100% positive that you are not committing badness against your own people by encouraging this backbite-fest against your fellow Muslims?

I am confused as to your intention here sister, and I am shocked that there is a big group of sisters here backbiting constantly, looking down on others, advertising flaws in the community and representing the muslims as sinners. Wow.

I am shocked.

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Hell Fire Furious Muslimah said...

Melda EXACTLY!!!! Absolutly makes me FURIOUS!

Stranger: Ya Allah these poor girls man it makes me FURIOUS!

fad-fadat nour: I had never heard this story do you have an evidence of it? Like a book quote or hadith or something I'd be interested to learn more about this. Yes it was common to marry young then.

Hell Fire Furious Muslimah said...

Shocked Anon,

you should be more shocked and upset these things are happening right under your pure hearted nose.

I too once lived in a beautiful bubble not knowing anything other than 5 pillars. Now sadly I have learned the truth and the truth must be spoken so others can try to ward off the evil they find. Just because you've never seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I'm sorry your bubble was popped here for the first time but this is reality dear sister in islam.
As for my intention that really is between me and Allah s.w.t. but I assure you it's good.
If you don't like it you are more than welcome to click that little x at the top of your screen and close it off and go back to your bubble. But you can't click off the world. you should know what is happening behind your back. Behind the back of Islam. So that hopefully one day if you or someone you know is in one of these situations perhaps instead of turning a cheek you actaully assist them. Remembering my vulgar words of truth.

You do have the right not to read things but if you want to keep reading I welcome you.

Hell Fire Furious Muslimah said...

Umm Hasan thank you for your thoughtful award but I will decline. I'm not going to do tags or awards. But I thank you for thinking highly of saying the truth.

Thanks Hal you're definitly an amazing source of various things!

Anonymous said...

I am an agnostic person living in America.

My Christian mother left my [at least culturally] Muslim father over this very issue. Over people making a big deal over Aisha.

A couple of years ago I tried to explain to her about the Prophet, and Aisha, and all of that.

She grew very ashen. She told me "If anyone had told me any of that there is a good chance I would have stayed in X country with your father."